Sorry it’s long……

Mum said I had really long straight Beautiful hair when I was around 3-4 years & my nan (without telling my mum) went to the hairdressers & got it all cut short, she did this a few times. Mum was not happy.

I’m 21 years old now & about to give birth to my first baby.
When I told nan I was pregnant, all she said was "Oh well you can only hope…….. your mum and Auntie both miscarried with their first"
So she was basically saying it WOULD happen to me.

My sister has had 2 kids & both times nan wanted her to get abortions done.

My nan stayed with me & my husband for 5 weeks, we did most of the cooking, & most of the dishes while she sat around & watched tv, we were always offering her to come out & do things like going to town or shopping but she would never want to get out of the house.
When it was time for her to leave we didn’t get a goodbye, a wave, a hug….. nothing….. she just turned up her nose got in the car & left.. all because she had to leave a day early cause we had something wrong with our car and couldn’t take her home, so she had to get a lift from my aunt and uncle.

She’s always negative she don’t really say much good about anyone, she has no encouragement at all, she has no support for anyone. All she does is complain about people behind their backs.

All through-out my pregnancy it’s like she’s been wanting something to go wrong, every time I would report back to the family about what the doctor said (& it was always good news) she would just walk off or interrupt me or just say "oh ok then" like she didn’t even care.

So about a week ago I told her that I could have a mild case of Pre-enclampsia to see what she would say, she was interested in every detail, & I did mention to her the next day everything was ok and I didn’t have it. All she said was

"oh that’s good then"

That didn’t stop her tho, she got on the phone & told nearly everyone she knew that I more or less had it!! & all of her friends gossip & blow everything out or proportion.

The other night nan forced my sister to buy this baby food called Forex, my sister knew her kids hated this stuff, nan didn’t listen so she tried to feed it to them, one didn’t eat it, the other threw up… lol
So nan started telling my sister she’s an unfit mother & she don’t look after her kids!!

I’m going to be having my baby soon & feel like I don’t want to have much to do with her as she is very interfering………….

Is my Nan being wrong towards us all?

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